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The long and short of it is: no, obviously not! However, if you'd been reading the blog waiting for an emotional, lengthy essay on my political beliefs, some impassioned piece on electorate participation, you'd have sadly been disappointed.

This is probably for a few reasons. Firstly, I had so many conflicting thoughts on what was going on. I was outraged and confused as to what would happen and cheering on certain people who were doing well, and I felt as if I couldn't articulate these into a piece that would be understandable and wouldn't misrepresent myself or the policy that I would have chosen to comment on. It's not as if I became politically disengaged, on the contrary, in person I offered plenty of healthy debate, but I found it difficult for whatever reason to actually produce something.

Secondly, I feel that, especially in the format of a written opinion piece, it feels as if it's an extension of the currently-on-hiatus 'Amber Rants' series (only on a hiatus because I'm less bored and more zen and can't really find much to rant about). Sure, maybe it doesn't matter at the moment, as our blog is still growing, but I want to start as I mean to go on. I've been thinking of how I could perhaps make it seem less like I'm forcing my views on you, and more like a presentation of what I think in a more open and encouraging-of-discussion way, since I do debate and it just seems a little ironic for me to present a closed essay.

I don't care if people know my political views (I actually love Jeremy Corbyn so much), but I respect that our audience would not necessarily share my views, and I think it's hypocritical to stand for free speech, but only if they align with one's own views. This is a particular facet of entitlement that I often see and always hate, no matter how much I oppose the view.

Added to all of this, I have had exams and exam stress and exam revision and... yeah, you can get the picture. It seems as if I've been in a hamster wheel of constantly studying, then taking the exam I have been studying for, then studying for the next. Especially having been ill this year, I have definitely felt the pressure, and almost all the rest of my time has been given over to sleeping and watching mind-numbing programs to unwind. This is also why you might have seen our post amount drop a fair bit.

Sooooo, the overall thing is that I'm probably going to work on a different way of doing election commentary for the next time one rolls around (soon by all accounts) and feel free to leave a comment with some advice. I'm thinking maybe of taking the stance newspapers and magazines do of an endorsement, and then possibly posting various people's views.

We live in a time
When we fold in on ourselves
Paper dolls holding hands
Ripping interlocked fingers
Hatred splicing a whole country
I will never understand
How someone can think
That barrier building is anything but bad
Today we love in a time
 In which the bookmark has fallen
Out of the page it was marking
 And certain people think
This means we return to the prologue
What is an inspirational woman?
What is a strong woman?
How do these differ from strong and inspirational men?
What is a feminist?

Inspiration lies around us wherever we are in the world: in order to live a fulfilling life, I believe it is necessary to be inspired and watch others be inspired and thus inspiring.

We live in an age where inspiration and feminist and strength and all these other descriptors, when applied to women, take on a rather arbitrary meaning. Beyoncé and Rosa Parks and Emma Watson, Marie Curie, Kim Kardashian and Caitlin Moran, Christiane Amanpour, Amal Clooney, Emmeline Pankhurst and Malala Yousafzai. All described, by varying media sources, as all of these adjectives. I won't get into the convoluted back-and-forth of 'are they - aren't they' for some of these women, as I think it rather undermines the whole process, yet it is undeniable that without more of a clear cut idea, these words are lazily thrown around.

Celebrity culture is, therefore, partly to blame for the bastardisation of a word, that, even when applied to men, connotes a wholly less vacuous meaning. 'inspirational male celebrities' brings up Muhammad Ali, a sportsperson and Richard Branson, an entrepreneur, as opposed to 'inspirational female celebrities' which suggests that Guiliana Rancic from Fashion Police (who was racist about a red carpet look by Zendaya) and Taylor Swift (arguably one of the least feminist feminists around). Even these simple searches show that the parameters for the key words I highlighted are just different, based on gender.

For a woman to be strong, as has been said many times, she has to act more like the perpetuated view of an ideal man. Yet in practice when a women acts in this way (assertive, dominant, confident etc) she is labelled a bitch, bossy and that almost certainly she is on her period.

I disagree with this perception of what a strong woman looks like: it's another attempt to pigeon-hole women and shame them into one certain model. It's like when members of the feminist community dictate what a feminist is: no, that is equally harmful and oppressive as a patriarchal society telling the population what a man and a woman should look like. It isn't difficult to be strong, in fact you almost have to disprove yourself to become 'not strong': cowardice isn't borne through action, but rather inaction. Take myself: I am strong, in certain ways yes, yet am I inspirational? Most certainly not. Therefore there must be some difference.

In a roundabout way, I am trying to show that 'empowering' labels such as strong will never be empowering until they mean the same for all genders.

'Inspirational' is an easier word to define. Young people are naturally less likely to be inspirations, as they have done less in their shorter lifetimes, but surely if we take the idea that oppressed groups within society 'work' harder just to exist (i.e. each day been more of a struggle, due to prejudice, institutionalised discrimination etc) it is easy to see why when someone from an oppressed group within society does something amazing, they are lauded even more highly. Let's apply this model to women: a female, ethnic minority CEO is thus surely more inspirational than a white, male counterpart, as the struggle within society to reach that point is harder. It's like when you run on a treadmill, but there's someone next to you in the gym running on an incline: when they're doing equally well, this is a result of greater effort.

This is why the words 'inspirational woman' or 'strong woman' are used regularly and interchangeably. I think it's also important to remember that 'celebrity' and 'inspiration' are also not equivalents: an inspiration can be anyone, and you may be inspired by one tiny part of a person. I think that wanting women to be strong and recognised as strong can never be a bad thing, so long as those that aren't strong aren't looked down upon for not fitting this new female ideal.

Essentially the crux of this column piece has been the simple line of: 'you do you', and to try and separate out some of the messy descriptors given to women. For it is better to be strong and not to have lived a hugely inspiring life, than it is to be inspirational for celebrity or something like that, and weak.

Amber writes in this font, and Ana in this

1. Why did you join your school's debating society?
Because I was bored, and thought it would be interesting.
Because I thought it would be fun

2. What do you hate most about debating?
Early starts for competitions that are the opposite side of the country 
The fact that it's so elitist and female debaters are sometimes not encouraged.

3. What do you love most about debate?
I really like winning arguments :)
It's competitive, and fun.

4. What is the hardest part about long competitions?
Keeping ideas fresh and the momentum going to do well in each round. They're quite draining and you're constantly dashing around and being pushed mentally.
Doing well in every single round, especially if you do really well the entire day and end up in your last round against some amazing teams.

5. How would you describe your relationship with your team?
Symbiotic- my partner and I have been debating for years, so we kind of know by now what the other will say.
Non-existent? Haha, no I have a better partner now, and it's pretty good: based on literature memes and politics.

6. How would you describe your relationship with your coach/teacher?
I'm considering setting up a rival debating society within my school ;)
Adventurous :)

7. Would you describe yourself as a good, average, or bad debater?
I'm okay...
I'm okay... 

8. Do you genuinely enjoy philosophy?
Yes, the world confuses me
Yes.

9. Do you genuinely enjoy politics/current events?
YES
Yes, there are also some very good memes 

10. What was your first competition like?
You kind of feel like your head has just been chopped off, as you're so used to just your society that the pressure and other teams make you feel wayyy more out of your depth.
Very challenging, having a partner with whom you've never spoken before it quite uncomfortable

11. What's the most important thing debating has taught you?
Confidence
How to think faster, and use your brain well

12. What would you sacrifice for success?
Idk, sleep, Saturdays and other time etc
A lot of things, probably, except for friendships and relationships, as it's sad to be a lonely debater

13. What's the key to winning for you?
Analysis 
Structure

14. How do you get inspiration for speeches/cases?
After pulling out the key direction we want to go in with a case, I just constantly ask questions (mostly 'why') during prep time.
I watch lots of debates online

15. Do you think debating is too esoteric or specialised?
Depends what the motion is I guess, some very specific IR motions can be, as opposed to others which are more general principles.
Yes in some cases, no in others.

16. Has debating shown you some of your better characteristics?
I made lots of good friends, so I guess it has?
It's made me friendlier and showed me how to use information effectively.

17. What do you wear to competitions?
Comfortable shoes are a must
Smart casual, or casual

18. What's your favourite thing to eat at competitions?
Pizza
Pizza

19. How do you stay awake and sharp at competitions?
Adrenaline and sugary snacks
I slept for 4 hours before a comp once, and had an energy drink. Also plenty of chocolate and chewy sweets, I like Haribos.

20. How do you deal with competitors that you hate?
Avoid them 
You mean 90% of the people you see?

21. What was the best motion that you've had?
I quite like ones where aid and sanctions are tied to the human rights record of a country
Criminalising all public climate change denial as I got to rip into Steve Bannon

22. How do you respond to failure?
Cry
Hide in a corner

23. What's the most important relationship you have made through debating?
I found my parents, as two of my good friends have now adopted me ;)
My husband and my child :)

24. If this weekend were your last tournament ever, what would you make sure to do at it?
Probably actually make the final, rather than having to take the train back home
Get higher than 83 speaks, and then celebrate with my husband and child!
During the 2016 elections, and ever since, I have developed a love for Joe Biden, and all memes related to him. Here are 10 of my favourites:


Both of these are hilarious, especially considering how outspoken he's been against gay people, as I can just imagine him being HORRIFIED.
My favourite :)
Biden and Obama are friendship goals and they even made bracelets for each other too <3
































Thanks must go to my friends for putting up with my political meme spam!


Anonymous, 24 Nov 16: 'Wow how original-- two skinny self absorbed millenial white girls using their blog to promote their own vanity. Congrats guys'

I am not the version of a millennial that is constantly rammed down the throats of young people.

I take selfies, but I also take politics seriously.

I am not weak, I would rather know when to seek help for mental health and when to cry than keep it all inside.

I am not a 'snowflake' for wanting people to feel safe no matter their race, nationality, religion, sexuality or gender.

I am not complaining constantly: complacency isn't the right attitude when there's still work to be done.

I am not flaky for swapping brands, for swapping groups for something that doesn't label me in buzzwords and patronise me during social media campaigns. 

I didn't choose the concept of 'participation trophies', but maybe this is why I think life isn't always about establishing dominance over the competition.

I am not whining: it is better to protest and make noise rather than look back in twenty years and ask why no-one asked why.

I am not entitled, or coddled, although I recognise my privilege and that I was fortunate to be born in a (relatively) stable country.

Despite what each sentence starts with, I'm not self-absorbed. I just refuse to be associated with the negative idea of an entire generation. Stop belittling me. 

Klar and I thought that in typical fashion we'd review a whole year! 2016 has widely been regarded as a highly crappy year (something about Mercury in retrograde lmao??) and some of this review does reflect that, but we also have our favourite albums, memes and other lovely things!

Favourite meme



A: Joe Biden memes for sure. My friend Ana and I especially enjoyed them, but in a dark time of political turmoil, I love how the world reduces the current Vice President of the USA to the world's most passive aggressive man.
K: Kermit 'me to me'

Most annoying meme

A: Damn Daniel without a doubt
K: 'fucking damn Daniel'




The general consensus here was that it was an unfunny thing in the first place, which was then done TO DEATH but couldn't be made any funnier or create different jokes.

Favourite purchase of 2016:

A: Fluffy socks
K: Fluffy dressing gown

Best artist we discovered:


The Japanese House: it was really relatable music from an artist that isn't very well known. We discovered them around the same time but I absolutely love it: ethereal kind of alternative pop.

Favourite song:

A: Fat Fingers by the wonderful clipping.
K: 7 by Catfish and the Bottlemen

Favourite album:

A: The Ride by Catfish and the Bottlemen. CATB are one of my favourite bands (roll on Reading next year!!) and I wanted 7 as my favourite song, but so did Klar so I settled for the whole album which I adore. Contains the beautiful Soundcheck, Oxygen, and Emily which I put on a mixtape I've made for my friend Emily :)
  

K: I Like It When You Sleep For You Are So Beautiful Yet So Unaware Of It by The 1975- so beautiful, read our review of their live performance with the Philharmonic Orchestra here


Most annoying album:

A: Busted's Night Driver, which is such a bloody disappointment. My 2000s were filled with 'Air Hostess' and 'Year 3000' and was so excited to hear about a new album. This? Bleugh
K: The Weeknd's Starboy (sure to be a big success) because I used to love the Weeknd and I hate his new album.

Favourite film:

A: Girl On The Train. I loved this film, having not read the book, despite Emily Blunt's ambiguous accent in the opening monologue (is she English?? Is she American??) :)
K: Finding Dory: it was adorable and hilarious and made me smile!

Favourite book:


A: Nicci French's 'Friday On My Mind' which is the fifth in a series that I'd highly recommend. It's a crime psychological thriller-y thing that is gripping and so suspenseful.
K: Black Eyed Susans by Julia Heaberlin. It was about healing and overcoming things that you never thought you would and falling in love, all with a thrilling murder mystery story spun together.

Favourite quote of the year:

A: 'Love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love and love cannot be killed or swept aside'
This was my quote of the year, in an awards show acceptance speech, in reference to the terrible Orlando shootings. 
K: 'Don't expect me to be sane, I can't, not with you'
I found it while I was reading 'Girl on the Train' and I loved the sentiment behind it that he's so madly in love with her that he can't even comprehend being rational around her.

Favourite tv show:


A: Gilmore Girls! I have watched all 7 seasons this year while ill, and I'm starting the reboot, which was actually released this year.
K: Game Of Thrones; it's exciting and dramatic, and the costumes and characters are fantastic and this season was no different!

Thing we're most grateful for from 2016:

A: My friends probably <3333
K: James because he makes me happy.

Biggest 'fuck politics' moment:

A: The bigotry throughout and in the days directly following the Trump campaign.
K: Brexit, see my viewpoint here and Amber's here.

Biggest dick of 2016:

A&K: Joint honours go to gtc for living up to his name, and Trump, for the horrible sexist/racist comments made, and breeding of hatred.

Relationship status throughout 2016:

A: In a relationship, single, dating someone, in a relationship with someone else, single now.
K: Single, seeing James March-August, in a relationship with James until present. 

Favourite makeup product of 2016:

A: Benefit Goof Proof eyebrow pencils, which are actually properly dark without being black, like my eyebrows. My ex's sister waxed my eyebrows and one appeared to grow further out than the other, which I was super self-conscious of.
K: Unicorn Horn makeup brushes: they're pretty and colourful and soft.



Celeb death that affected us the most:

A: Alan Rickman, who I've seen in films ranging from Love Actually to Harry Potter, or the inimitable Prince, of whom I saw a beautiful cover of Purple Rain in June, and everyone was singing along together.
K: David Bowie, who was so special to me as a kid.


Proudest moment of 2016:

A: I got the chance in the summer to debate at a camp and by the end, I felt so proud of myself, because I made so many friends and didn't feel out of my depth :)
K: Passing my driving test because I worked really hard for it, and my driving instructor didn't think I could do it, so I proved him wrong.
Photo: CNN News

I was that one that stayed up at 1am, watching the first US Presidential Candidates' Debate. We, across the Atlantic, have watched the circus that has been the electoral race so far, with a mixture of bemusement and confusion.

What you have to understand is that even the most 'Democrat' of candidates aren't really liberal by European standards, where free healthcare, gun control and greater social security are all status quo. We would probably mark HRC as a Conservative by British party standards (and a Tory here is not especially similar to the GOP in the US), and Donald Trump, well, he'd probably be considered very right wing: hardline UKIPer, or even, dare I say, the BNP?

All of this aside, it has been a rather entertaining, if not infuriating campaign season. And that seemed to be the tone going into this debate.

Pre-debate Thoughts:

We know how this will go: Trump will start out strong and powerful, but lacking in the facts. HRC, a less charismatic but more fact-filled speaker, will call him out on some facts. He, with fewer facts, will retaliate with his usual insult filled rhetoric and that's what the 'debate' will settle into. 

First Impressions:

Okay, so first things first: how are they looking? Hillary has a grin plastered to her face but doesn't seem as frail and ill as the GOP are desperate to paint her. Trump looks the same but also seems to be sniffing every time he finishes a sentence. Is there a bad smell or does he have a cold?

Fact Checking:

I personally believe that debate moderators should fact check. Surely it is their job to make sure the electorate are well informed with all of the right facts. Otherwise, I could go and stand for some position of power and tell everyone to vote for me because I'll personally pay off everyone's mortgage and hand out free cupcakes every Saturday. 

HRC said that if people wanted to fact check, then they should head over to her website, which I personally felt was a bit poor, but whatever.

Substance:

Donald Trump began the debate echoing the strongest and most resounding of his sentiments so far. Much was made about economic policy, and he seemed to have been schooled on how he should be acting: at the beginning he seemed a lot calmer and less erratic than other rallies etc.
Example: 'Now, in all fairness to Secretary Clinton - yes, is that okay? Good. I want you to be very happy, it's very important to me.'

Time and time again his pitfalls are  facts and fact-checking, which I think is in part due to to him addressing certain  sentiments within the electorate rather than problems which present more solid facts and figures to build a case. Clinton attacked him well, showing that she had, of course, done her homework, and his arguments are always left on shaky ground. There were the sort of supposedly off-the-cuff remarks and barbs that we all know are rehearsed, and which really annoy me (like Theresa May here in the U.K.) from Hillary, where instead a carefully pointed question could have brought out better arguments from both sides. Example: 'we have a winning fight' - what would you do?

I think HRC could have made use of her silences more. For example, at one point she said 'look what he said' and then continued for about 2 minutes. Just leave it, Hillary, that would have spoken far more powerfully.

I also wished we could have seen more questions that didn't solely tie into economic policy, but there are two more debates to follow. YAY.

Overview:

Let's face it, this debate likely didn't swing anyone wildly. Trump's supporters will still be enthusiastically Trump supporters, and Hillary's supporters will still feel semi-enthusiastic about November. Probably didn't do a lot for uneducated voters.

Trump was strong and on the offense for the first quarter, but after that reverted back to the rude and rattled tone seen before. He caught Hillary out on NAFTA, which, although not economically the strongest, it does always seem important to voters. Hillary was decent, but did get caught out and couldn't reply to whether or not she supported Obama's views on TPP. Roll on the next two debates.
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